and your generalizations are sad and miss the mark. I have a good friend that served in a major conflict in Somalia. He lost many good friends now decorated with bronze and silver stars and Medals of Honor and he/she is so decorated. That he is now a she ...and guess what...his military buddies, those that stood shoulder to shoulder with him could give a rats ass if he became a Martian as long as he is an American. If you have been paying attention, our Chiefs of Staff feel the same damn way. My point, why does it matter what someone else is or isn't. As long as they are not pissing in your garden or grabbing your ass, look the other way and live and let live. There are some damn good people who would stand by your side and have your back when many "straight" dudes would piss themselves and run like the cowards they are.